What Is Grace Check?
Grace Check™ is part of Sunnyside's commitment to Social Grace: learning to become better people living alongside others. It's about respecting boundaries, treating people with kindness, considering how our actions affect others, and leaving a room better than we found it.
This is not a judgment of anyone's character, intentions, or morality. Ratings help us identify behaviors that may need improvement, clarification, or support. They are signals for review, not proof of misconduct or automatic grounds for restricting participation.
Please assess only what you personally observed. Be fair, honest, and specific. Do not guess, diagnose, or rate someone based on popularity, friendship, or personal differences. If you did not meaningfully observe a peer, select “Not enough interaction to assess.” Do not assess yourself.
Responses are confidential and will be reviewed only by Sunnyside's authorized leadership. Individual ratings will not be published as rankings.
Our goal is to help everyone grow, hold ourselves accountable, and make Sunnyside a safer, more respectful community for all.
Assessment Limit
Each form submission allows you to assess two participants.
If you need to assess a third participant or more, please open a new form submission for every additional pair of participants.
Please complete both assessment pages before submitting. If you have insufficient interaction with a participant to make a fair assessment, select “Not enough interaction to assess” where appropriate.
Instructions
Stage 1 — Assess everyone
- Rate every child or teen who attended the meetup.
- Choose one rating per participant based on your observations.
- Select “Not enough interaction to assess” when you lack sufficient information.
- Do not assess yourself.
Stage 2 — Follow up on concerns
- Use the follow-up slots only for participants rated “Significant concern” or “Needs clarification” in Stage 1.
- Select the correct participant in each dropdown.
- Complete the behavioral matrix and describe the specific behavior and relevant context.
- You may assess up to two participants per submission. If additional participants need follow-up, submit another assessment.
Safety
If there is an immediate safety concern, contact an authorized Sunnyside organizer directly. Do not rely solely on this form for urgent matters.
